Tears2Breakthrough Ministries

Setting Boundaries. How many of us are enabling loved ones? Enabling behavior is born out of our instinct for love. It's only natural to want to help someone we love, but when we continue to give and never see any result or change within that person you might want to ask yourself, am I helping or enabling?

You shall also decree a thing, and it shall be established to you. Light shall shine on your ways.

I LOVE this WOMAN. I’ve betrayed her. I’ve not loved her at full capacity. I’ve fed her lies & told her she wasn’t good enough. I’ve allowed her to be broken. I’ve allowed her to run through brick walls & battle for others, some of whom won’t even stand for her. I couldn’t stop individuals from abandoning her, yet I’ve seen her still get up to be a light to the world & love others despite all. Forgive me for not going to war for you like you do for others. She is a WARRIOR. She’s not perfect but the Master calls her WORTH IT! Gracefully broken but beautifully standing. She is loved. She is life. She is transformation. She is grace. She is brave! She builds Arks before there is any rain. She looks fear in the face and rises in faith. She deserves more worth than I give her! #iAmShe #Sheisme #ChosenbyTheMostHigh

As you know I am a survivor and a thriver of abuse & domestic violence. Friday is our life after abuse, divorce trauma and loss series. Today I thought I would share the first sign of abuse for me. The very first time my abuser got angry enough to hit a hole in the wall and very close to hitting my face should have been a sign for me. Instead I just thought wow, I made him very angry. As time went on his aim was not the wall it was actually my face. If they did it once, #TheyWillDoItAgain 👈🏾 #Abusive behaviors are a #pattern. #OneTime is too much ❌ You #deserve to be #safe in #yourhome

Being Raped/Molested at a young age forces you to grow up fast. Some turn gay, have sex issues, bad attitudes, trust issues, love too hard, live in fear, etc. Some grow a shell and others do anything it takes to be loved because most times we miss that part and don’t understand and just want to feel wanted, or needed because you don't know what you did to be hurt the way you were by most times a person who is suppose to love you. A family member or a family friend or maybe somebody who just took advantage of you & you blame yourself for things that nobody could control. I'm a survivor of it. I struggle daily, I get upset, I love hard, I get hurt easily, I stay when I should go, and I go when I should stay, at times I’m very emotional, I am uncomfortable with being vulnerable,my silent cries fall upon death ears and are blinded by my smiles. Somehow I keep pushing Maybe TMI but.. I Am NOT ashamed! I AM A SURVIVOR!!!! I am a Sunflower 🌻 🖤.....

What adjustments and changes must you make for a better life, not a bitter life? We all have our own stuff to deal with; things that are specific to our upbringing and other life experiences.

It is important to note that Jesus’ prayer, “Father, forgive them,” does not mean that everyone was forgiven, without repentance and faith. It does mean that Jesus was willing to forgive them—forgiveness was, in fact, the reason He was on the cross. The words “Father, forgive them” show the merciful heart of God. Even in His agony, Jesus’ concern was for the forgiveness of those who counted themselves among His enemies. He asked the Father to forgive the thieves on the cross who made rude and mocking remark at Him. He asked the Father to forgive the Roman soldiers who had mocked Him, spit on Him, beat Him, yanked out His beard, whipped Him, put a crown of thorns on His head, and nailed Him to the cross. Jesus asked forgiveness for the angry mob that had mocked Him and called for His crucifixion. Who do you need to forgive?

Sometimes it is hard to truly comprehend a threat that comes from things that are unseen. However, God warns us that the threat of spiritual warfare is very real and to arm ourselves with what He has given us

Are you holding onto unforgiveness? Unforgiveness is when you are unwilling or unable to forgive someone for hurting, betraying, breaking your trust or causing you intense emotional pain.

Are you eating crumbs or the pie? It is very important to have multiple income streams. This will allow you to have various cash flow sources that are coming in. This puts you in a better position to be prepared if one source of income stops.

Have you ever wondered why you are the way you are? Lets get to the root cause!

Due to the corona virus pandemic, many couples have had to postpone their weddings. Some, however, are finding more creative ways around the problem like having a few people witness their nuptials. They are also re-scheduling their honeymoon for later this year or even next year. If your honeymoon was cancelled, here are some fun ways you can still experience a getaway: Have fun together making your home into a honeymoon destination. You can put up a sign that says, “Welcome to your honeymoon,” or even set up your own snacks and mini bar. Put a couple of pieces of chocolate on your pillows, and take some time to learn how to fold a towel like a swan. The point is, choose to love, laugh and have fun creating an at home honeymoon destination together. Enjoy and let me know if I can help you plan. #DestiPastor #IDoCrew

A paradigm shift is defined as "an important change that happens when the usual way of thinking about or doing something is replaced by a new and different way." Here are some ideas on how to change your mindset: 1. Accept that your thinking needs adjusting· 2. Identify your counter-mindsets · 3. Flip the switch and make the shift.